A Note From

Rev. Joe Koyickal

Feast of the Holy Family

This weekend we celebrate the Feast of the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph. It is a beautiful reminder that God chose to come into our world not in a palace, but in the heart of a simple ordinary family. By doing so, God blessed family life with His own presence and made it holy. That is why Vatican II called family, “the domestic church”. All families are called to be Holy. This does not mean that family life is not challenging or easy.

Today’s readings speak directly to the joys and struggles of our families. Sirach reminds us of the importance of honoring one another, especially within the family, and caring for each other with patience and respect. Saint Paul encourages us to clothe ourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. These are the key virtues that are essential for family life. In the Gospel, we see the Holy Family facing fear, uncertainty, and hardship as they flee into Egypt

to protect the Child Jesus. Even the Holy Family was not free from challenges. But they persevered in love and faithfulness.

This speaks to our own reality. Families today face many pressures; busy schedules, financial worries, misunderstandings, illness, broken relationships, and the influence of a culture that does not always support family values. Yet holiness in family life does not mean perfection. It means faithfulness and perseverance amid these challenges. A holy family is one that tries to love, forgive, pray, and stay united, even in difficult times.

The Holy Family shows us what should govern our homes: love rooted in faith, trust in God, mutual respect, and self-giving service. Mary and Joseph listened to God, supported one another, and placed Jesus at the center of their lives. When Christ is at the center of our families, He brings healing, strength, and hope. Praying and worshipping together as a family is a great way to strengthen our family life.

On this Feast of the Holy Family, let us pray for our families, those that are strong and those that are struggling. May our homes be places of love, patience, forgiveness, and faith. May the spirit of the Holy Family live in our hearts and guide our daily lives, so that our families may grow stronger and become signs of God’s love in the world.

As you know, I am leaving for India for my vacation on the December 30 & will be back on February 2. Please keep me in your prayers for safe travels. Please welcome Fr. Leon Martin from Milwaukee, who is no stranger to you, who will be celebrating the Masses and attending to any of your pastoral needs during my absence. Wishing you all a very

Happy New Year!

Blessings of Peace and Joy Always! 

Fr. Joe